Summary:
add DestroyColumnFamilyHandle(ColumnFamilyHandle**) to close column family instead of deleting cfh*
User should call this to close a cf and then we can detect the deletion in this function.
Test Plan: make all check -j64
Reviewers: andrewkr, yiwu, sdong
Reviewed By: sdong
Subscribers: andrewkr, dhruba, leveldb
Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D60765