Summary:
When `max_valid_backups_to_open` is set, the `BackupEngine` doesn't know about the files referenced by existing backups. This PR prevents us from deleting valid files when that option is set, in cases where we are unable to accurately determine refcount. There are warnings logged when we may miss deleting unreferenced files, and a recommendation in the header for users to periodically unset this option and run a full `GarbageCollect`.
Closes https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/pull/3518
Differential Revision: D7008331
Pulled By: ajkr
fbshipit-source-id: 87907f964dc9716e229d08636a895d2fc7b72305