Summary: add ColumnFamilyHandleDeletionStarted listener which can be called when user deletes handler.
Test Plan: ./listener_test
Reviewers: yiwu, IslamAbdelRahman, sdong, andrewkr
Reviewed By: andrewkr
Subscribers: andrewkr, dhruba, leveldb
Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D60717